Proactive is the Way
It’s your life and it’s time to take it back. Don’t succumb to a life not designed by you. You have the ability to change your fabricated destiny and design the life that you desire. Is your health struggling and have you lost hope? Has your mental health been impacted and you find yourself alone and misunderstood? Are you experiencing a society that is loveless and could care less? Join us as we serve as your guide to find the strength and love within to navigate this thing we call life, creating our authentic selves so that we can live confidently, validated, and unashamed.
Episodes
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
S2:E9 The World is My Oyster (audio)
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
S2:E9 The World is My Oyster
Welcome to the fascinating world of Kinky Knot's Cafe, Proactive is the Way, where we fortify your mind, body, and spirit with effective tools and resources. We are on an ever-evolving journey of self-growth and realization, seeking to build the life we always dreamed of in our radiant determination for a better future.
On this episode, we are revisiting a topic from Season 1, Episode 2 of the Designing Your Life series. We look back at our odyssey plans and marvel at the tremendous advancements made in our personal and professional life. As we hail our achievements, we realize our plans need to be even bigger! You'll hear about two phenomenal plans that culminated in consequential results, teaching us to stop playing small in this grand world.
Yet, why revert to designing life again, you might wonder? Our episode elaborates on the role of a designer in sharpening your life's blueprints and harnessing opportunities for growth. After successfully fulfilling two out of three Odyssey plans, we find ourselves ready to execute and share the third strategy.
This journey involves discovering the concept of prototyping in a designer's universe, a creative process that brings our biases, assumptions, and empathetic understandings to the forefront. An integral part of having the courage to be vulnerable, prototyping allows us to envision our future while living it, extending an exciting venture to understand a new career path and foster a supportive community.
In preparation for our discussions, you will need to:
📚Pick up a copy of Design Your Life and review chapter 6: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapproved
🗞️ Read the article Experimenting Your Life: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/201909/experimenting-your-life
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
Resources:
Odyssey Planning Worksheet: https://designingyour.life/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DYL_ODYSSEY-PLANNING-WORKSHEET.pdf
Toyia’s Odyssey Plans: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1-0HypydQb2n1RickFES7eRXsW0aDCL-A
2022 KK Cafe - A Year in Review: https://youtu.be/SCA1e8iym68?si=bgWuOX0WA6_noTjm
2023 KK Cafe - A Year in Review: https://youtu.be/tS3BC5VdP6Q?si=ckpBSnKyRVSsOmq4
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
S2:E9 The World is My Oyster (video)
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
S2:E9 The World is My Oyster
Welcome to the fascinating world of Kinky Knot's Cafe, Proactive is the Way, where we fortify your mind, body, and spirit with effective tools and resources. We are on an ever-evolving journey of self-growth and realization, seeking to build the life we always dreamed of in our radiant determination for a better future.
On this episode, we are revisiting a topic from Season 1, Episode 2 of the Designing Your Life series. We look back at our odyssey plans and marvel at the tremendous advancements made in our personal and professional life. As we hail our achievements, we realize our plans need to be even bigger! You'll hear about two phenomenal plans that culminated in consequential results, teaching us to stop playing small in this grand world.
Yet, why revert to designing life again, you might wonder? Our episode elaborates on the role of a designer in sharpening your life's blueprints and harnessing opportunities for growth. After successfully fulfilling two out of three Odyssey plans, we find ourselves ready to execute and share the third strategy.
This journey involves discovering the concept of prototyping in a designer's universe, a creative process that brings our biases, assumptions, and empathetic understandings to the forefront. An integral part of having the courage to be vulnerable, prototyping allows us to envision our future while living it, extending an exciting venture to understand a new career path and foster a supportive community.
In preparation for our discussions, you will need to:
📚Pick up a copy of Design Your Life and review chapter 6: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapproved
🗞️ Read the article Experimenting Your Life: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/201909/experimenting-your-life
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
Resources:
Odyssey Planning Worksheet: https://designingyour.life/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/DYL_ODYSSEY-PLANNING-WORKSHEET.pdf
Toyia’s Odyssey Plans: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1-0HypydQb2n1RickFES7eRXsW0aDCL-A
2022 KK Cafe - A Year in Review: https://youtu.be/SCA1e8iym68?si=bgWuOX0WA6_noTjm
2023 KK Cafe - A Year in Review: https://youtu.be/tS3BC5VdP6Q?si=ckpBSnKyRVSsOmq4
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
S2:E8 The Courage to be Vulnerable
We are continuing our discussions on how to be more radically open minded which is one of the principles highlighted in Ray Dalio’s book, Principles. In our efforts to get ahead of the barriers that prevent us from being open minded 2 weeks ago in S2:E7 we reviewed the barriers and honed in on the source or cause of those barriers, fear and the inability to be vulnerable.
Today, we are going to take this theoretical knowledge and look at some real world examples by learning about Gregory Styan and how changing his accent to rub elbows with a Russian Billionaire and the strict family values within Julie Coraccio’s life impacted their ability to build better relationships and live life fully and unashamed.
To connect and learn more about our guests, please visit their website at:
🌎 Gregory Styan, GBS Life Coaching: https://www.gbslifecoach.com/
🌎 Julie Coraccio, Reawaken Your Brilliance: https://reawakenyourbrilliance.com/
In preparation for our discussions, pick up a copy of our featured books Daring Greatly by Brene Brown and Principles by Ray Dalio on:
📚 KK Cafe Approved Books: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
Next, take a listen on an excerpt of our conversations below and then head on over to Proactive is the Way to listen or watch the full episode:
🎙️Proactive is the Way: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/proactiveistheway
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
Guests:
🌎 Gregory Styan, GBS Life Coaching: https://www.gbslifecoach.com/
Sign up for his newsletter
🌎 Julie Coraccio, Reawaken Your Brilliance: https://reawakenyourbrilliance.com/
Follow Julie on YouTube and check out her podcasts
Sign up for her newsletter
The Tangential Mind:
Thyroid Awareness Month: https://www.thyroid.org/patient-thyroid-information/ct-for-patients/january-2024/#:~:text=January%202024%20%7C%20American%20Thyroid%20Association
Music Song Selection:
Truth and Honesty by Aretha Franklin: https://youtu.be/zqo9I8HEh18?si=YtIkkC6s1iKnU1rr
Time Management Resources:
Pomodoro Technique: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomodoro_Technique
Eisenhower Matrix: https://asana.com/resources/eisenhower-matrix
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
S2:E8 The Courage to be Vulnerable
We are continuing our discussions on how to be more radically open minded which is one of the principles highlighted in Ray Dalio’s book, Principles. In our efforts to get ahead of the barriers that prevent us from being open minded 2 weeks ago in S2:E7 we reviewed the barriers and honed in on the source or cause of those barriers, fear and the inability to be vulnerable.
Today, we are going to take this theoretical knowledge and look at some real world examples by learning about Gregory Styan and how changing his accent to rub elbows with a Russian Billionaire and the strict family values within Julie Coraccio’s life impacted their ability to build better relationships and live life fully and unashamed.
To connect and learn more about our guests, please visit their website at:
🌎 Gregory Styan, GBS Life Coaching: https://www.gbslifecoach.com/
🌎 Julie Coraccio, Reawaken Your Brilliance: https://reawakenyourbrilliance.com/
In preparation for our discussions, pick up a copy of our featured books Daring Greatly by Brene Brown and Principles by Ray Dalio on:
📚 KK Cafe Approved Books: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
Next, take a listen on an excerpt of our conversations below and then head on over to Proactive is the Way to listen or watch the full episode:
🎙️Proactive is the Way: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/proactiveistheway
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
Guests:
🌎 Gregory Styan, GBS Life Coaching: https://www.gbslifecoach.com/
Sign up for his newsletter
🌎 Julie Coraccio, Reawaken Your Brilliance: https://reawakenyourbrilliance.com/
Follow Julie on YouTube and check out her podcasts
Sign up for her newsletter
The Tangential Mind:
Thyroid Awareness Month: https://www.thyroid.org/patient-thyroid-information/ct-for-patients/january-2024/#:~:text=January%202024%20%7C%20American%20Thyroid%20Association
Music Song Selection:
Truth and Honesty by Aretha Franklin: https://youtu.be/zqo9I8HEh18?si=YtIkkC6s1iKnU1rr
Time Management Resources:
Pomodoro Technique: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomodoro_Technique
Eisenhower Matrix: https://asana.com/resources/eisenhower-matrix
Sunday Jan 07, 2024
S2:E7 The Courage to be Vulnerable (audio)
Sunday Jan 07, 2024
Sunday Jan 07, 2024
S2:E7 The Courage to be Vulnerable
“Vision waits for us, ready to give itself; we use countless techniques to cut ourselves off from it” - Kennelly
Do you fear being vulnerable?
Learn how embracing vulnerability gives us power over our fears and allows us to engage with others so that we can start transforming the way we live, love, parent, and lead by listening to the book review of Daring Greatly by Brene Brown.
📚 Daring Greatly by Brene Brown - https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
To listen to theTedTalk noted in this segment, please visit:
The Power of Vulnerability
https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en
Psychotherapists’ Lived Experience of Psychological Blind Spots: Findings from a Hermeneutic Phenomenological Enquiry
https://iacp.ie/files/UserFiles/IJCP-Articles/2020/Winter%202020/ICJP%20Winter%202020%20Psychotherapists%20lived%20experience%20of%20psycholgical%20blind%20spots.pdf
Sunday Jan 07, 2024
S2:E7 The Courage to be Vulnerable (video)
Sunday Jan 07, 2024
Sunday Jan 07, 2024
S2:E7 The Courage to be Vulnerable
“Vision waits for us, ready to give itself; we use countless techniques to cut ourselves off from it” - Kennelly
Do you fear being vulnerable?
Learn how embracing vulnerability gives us power over our fears and allows us to engage with others so that we can start transforming the way we live, love, parent, and lead by listening to the book review of Daring Greatly by Brene Brown.
📚 Daring Greatly by Brene Brown - https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
To listen to theTedTalk noted in this segment, please visit:
The Power of Vulnerability
https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en
Psychotherapists’ Lived Experience of Psychological Blind Spots: Findings from a Hermeneutic Phenomenological Enquiry
https://iacp.ie/files/UserFiles/IJCP-Articles/2020/Winter%202020/ICJP%20Winter%202020%20Psychotherapists%20lived%20experience%20of%20psycholgical%20blind%20spots.pdf
Sunday Dec 24, 2023
Sunday Dec 24, 2023
S2:E6 The Art of Discernment
Merry Christmas Eve everyone! You are in for a treat today! Whether you are still preparing for the Big Man’s arrival tomorrow , lounging with family and/ friends, or just in restoration mode, this is such a great opportunity to pause and get nurtured from the inside out by checking out our latest series titled, The Art of Discernment.
If you ever wanted to learn how to use your natural attributes of intuition, communicating telepathically, and foresight effectively to make good decisions then you don’t want to miss this episode. We had an opportunity to connect with 2 guests this month who were able to share their perspective, giving you a double dose of knowledge, on The Art of Discernment.
Pick up a copy of our featured books today and then listen to S2:E6 The Art of Discernment.
📚 Discerning the voice of God by Priscilla Shrier and The Power of a Whisper by Bill Hybels: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
The Tangential Mind:
The History of Christmas
https://www.history.com/topics/christmas/history-of-christmas#who-invented-santa-claus
Resources:
MIT’s mind reading wearable lets you silently interact with all of your devices
https://youtu.be/VnMS8WMDDhs?si=y2ITOD16aoeYDUA4
How Mind Reading Technology Conquers Your Brain
https://youtu.be/csjFifU2Pxc?si=fuwVOoZR5Qqfy_9h
Emotional Intelligence Overview:
https://www.talentsmarteq.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/TalentSmartEQ-Info.zip
4 skills and 15 strategies to help you improve within the 4 skills
Purchase the book to get your personalized code to take the survey
📚Emotional Intelligence 2.0: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
‼️Next Episode‼️
S2:E7 The Courage to be Vulnerable
Sunday, January 7, 2024
📚 Daring Greatly by Brene Brown: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
Sunday Dec 24, 2023
Sunday Dec 24, 2023
S2:E6 The Art of Discernment
Merry Christmas Eve everyone! You are in for a treat today! Whether you are still preparing for the Big Man’s arrival tomorrow , lounging with family and/ friends, or just in restoration mode, this is such a great opportunity to pause and get nurtured from the inside out by checking out our latest series titled, The Art of Discernment.
If you ever wanted to learn how to use your natural attributes of intuition, communicating telepathically, and foresight effectively to make good decisions then you don’t want to miss this episode. We had an opportunity to connect with 2 guests this month who were able to share their perspective, giving you a double dose of knowledge, on The Art of Discernment.
Pick up a copy of our featured books today and then listen to S2:E6 The Art of Discernment.
📚 Discerning the voice of God by Priscilla Shrier and The Power of a Whisper by Bill Hybels: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
The Tangential Mind:
The History of Christmas
https://www.history.com/topics/christmas/history-of-christmas#who-invented-santa-claus
Resources:
MIT’s mind reading wearable lets you silently interact with all of your devices
https://youtu.be/VnMS8WMDDhs?si=y2ITOD16aoeYDUA4
How Mind Reading Technology Conquers Your Brain
https://youtu.be/csjFifU2Pxc?si=fuwVOoZR5Qqfy_9h
Emotional Intelligence Overview:
https://www.talentsmarteq.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/TalentSmartEQ-Info.zip
4 skills and 15 strategies to help you improve within the 4 skills
Purchase the book to get your personalized code to take the survey
📚Emotional Intelligence 2.0: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
‼️Next Episode‼️
S2:E7 The Courage to be Vulnerable
Sunday, January 7, 2024
📚 Daring Greatly by Brene Brown: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
Sunday Dec 10, 2023
S2:E5 The Art of Discernment (audio)
Sunday Dec 10, 2023
Sunday Dec 10, 2023
S2:E5 The Art of Discernment
“And God said, Let US make man in OUR image, after OUR likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.” Genesis 1:26
Do you possess the capability to leverage discernment effectively?
Pick up a copy of our featured books today and then listen to S2:E5 The Art of Discernment.
📚 Discerning the voice of God by Priscilla Shrier and The Power of a Whisper by Bill Hybels: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
To listen to the full episode of the YouTube videos noted in this segment, please visit:
MIT’s mind reading wearable lets you silently interact with all of your devices
https://youtu.be/VnMS8WMDDhs?si=y2ITOD16aoeYDUA4
How Mind Reading Technology Conquers Your Brain
https://youtu.be/csjFifU2Pxc?si=fuwVOoZR5Qqfy_9h
Sunday Dec 10, 2023
S2:E5 The Art of Discernment (video)
Sunday Dec 10, 2023
Sunday Dec 10, 2023
S2:E5 The Art of Discernment
“And God said, Let US make man in OUR image, after OUR likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.” Genesis 1:26
Do you possess the capability to leverage discernment effectively?
Pick up a copy of our featured books today and then listen to S2:E5 The Art of Discernment.
📚 Discerning the voice of God by Priscilla Shrier and The Power of a Whisper by Bill Hybels: https://www.kinkyknotscafe.com/kkcafeapprovedbooks
If you have questions about this episode and would like for us to address it in the next episode please contact us at Kinky Knots Cafe or send an email to support@kinkyknotscafe.com.
To learn more about the speakers or to access all replays, please visit Kinky Knots Cafe: Proactive is the Way Podcast
Speakers:
Tiffany Bryant, MSN, FNP-C
Toyia Bryant, MBA, CPT, RYT-200
To listen to the full episode of the YouTube videos noted in this segment, please visit:
MIT’s mind reading wearable lets you silently interact with all of your devices
https://youtu.be/VnMS8WMDDhs?si=y2ITOD16aoeYDUA4
How Mind Reading Technology Conquers Your Brain
https://youtu.be/csjFifU2Pxc?si=fuwVOoZR5Qqfy_9h